“Then is He who creates like one who does not create? So will you not be reminded?” [16:17]
“Then is He who creates like one who does not create? So will you not be reminded?” [16:17]
Muhammad Salalahu ‘alaihi wasallam said, ‘How blessed is Al-Sham.’ The Companions Radiallahu ‘anhum asked, ‘Why is that?’ The Messenger Salalahu ‘alaihi wasallam replied, ‘I see the Angels of Allah spreading their wings over Al-Sham.’ - Musnad Ahmad, Jami al-Tirmidhi
Salaam alykum,
I’m so sorry it took me so long to answer this message, I missed it, and just discovered it today.
Note to those who have asked me anon question: many times, I don’t get your questions (people have complained) or I might have missed it. I am trying to get much better about this in the future, insha Allah.
From the get-go I’m going to say this: there’s nothing in The Qur’an about eyebrows. Honestly, nothing. So, this becomes a Hadith throw-down.
Now, there is a strong Hadith, narrated by Abu Daoud, in which The Prophet cursed women who pluck their eyebrows and those who do the plucking (that’s an awk sentence).
That should put that to rest, so everyone who has touched their eyebrows is going to Hell. Right?
Er. Hold up. While various internet Muftis will cite this Hadith, they forget the context of what The Prophet was saying. This is critical. The reason why Muhammad was not so excited with these women, was because at the time, women who did this (plucking) were usually prostitutes.
So, the issue is clearly not about the plucking, the issue is that during The Prophet’s time, this act represented something VERY different to what it means to us today.
Plus, there is the Al-Tabari report of the wife of Abu Ishaq, who loved to beautify herself, going to Aisha, and she asked “What if a woman removes the hair from her forehead to please her husband?” Aisha replied, “Remove what is harmful from yourselves whenever possible.”
So, instead of taking this to mean (like other scholars) that it’s okay to do things to your eyebrows for your husband, I think we should look at this as, its fine, as long as you’re not looking to become a prostitute, etc.
I think a firm limit would be to tattoo eyebrows on (which I’ve heard is done) and to tattoo your eyelids, in lieu of mascara (or is it eye-liner?) These are forbidden because they are tattoos, and because there’s no way for your body to return to its original, which is central towards determining whether something is permissible or not.
As far as the arguments that say that shaping your eyebrows changes your appearance, and thus is on par with tattoos, this is dubious at best. As you girls know, your eyebrow hair is going to grow back, and, even so, there are various suggestions within the Islamic discourse, to remove body hair as is hygienic. So, it’s clearly not about “changing your natural appearance,” because we do that constantly, the question is about the limits of this practice.
We cut our hair on our heads, men cut their beards, shape them, even the most Sunnah of Sunnah beards, ultimately are shaped somewhat. Again, the critical point here is that Muhammad’s condemnation was not about the practice itself, but because of what it meant at the time.
I think this question is a perfect example of why we need more female scholars. There are absolute ballers, like Souad Saleh (Dean at Al-Azhar) or, one of my favorite Shariah scholars, Intisar Rabb. Why women go to some dude scholar to ask them about menstruation or nail polish is beyond me, they’re not going to understand it, because they’ve never had to deal with it personally.
Most male scholars have no idea how to handle these sorts of questions, and the only reason I have a chance is that I have lots of sisters, cousins, and nieces, so, as a green card holder in the United States of Estrogen, I’ve picked up a thing or two. Plus, in college, I started a Men’s Style Magazine, so, I really look at clothing and fashion in a very different way to the scholars of today.
Whenever you look at an Islamic injunction that is about your physical appearance, please think about what the purpose behind the injunction is and what the context regarding that is. If you don’t do that, you will actually be missing out on the bigger concept and be worse off as a result. If you take a look at my answer to the question of shortened pants, you will see what I mean.
In sum, I think that it would be permissible to shape your eyebrows, because I do not think that people associate eyebrow shaping with prostitution anymore. Furthermore, when you look at the fact that we groom ourselves in many different areas, and that the issue of limits on our grooming is the ability for the body to return to its original state, I think the evidence is pretty strong to allow this.
Insha Allah, I hope I answered your question, and that if you or anyone else has any questions about this, or another topic, that you please do not hesitate to ask me.
Abdal Hakim Murad: “Despite all the stereotypes of Islam being the paradigmatic opposite to life in the west, the feeling of conversion is not that one has migrated but that one has come home. I feel that I more authentically inhabit my old identity now that I operate within Islamic boundaries than I did when I was part of a teenage generation growing up in the 70s who were told there shouldn’t be any boundaries.” Read more in the link…
Lifestyle of Muhammad (PBUH):From The Real Beauty of A Muslimah page (via aworldbeneathmyheadscarf)
Talk softly,
Walk humbly,
Eat sensibly,
Breathe deeply,
Sleep sufficiently,
Dress properly,
Act fearlessly,
Work patiently,
Think truthfully,
Believe correctly,
Behave decently,
Learn practically,
Plan orderly,
Earn honestly,
Spend intelligently,
Sacrifice regularly,
Worship compulsorily,
Take care of parents kindly.
Author: Yoosuf ibn Abdillaah ibn Yoosuf al-Waabil
A. The Minor Signs
- The Prophethood of Muhammad (sallallaahu alayhi wasallam)
- The death of the Prophet (sallallaahu alayhi wasallam)
- The conquering of Bait ul-Maqdis
- The Plague of Amwaas (in Palestine)
- The increase in wealth so that sadaqah is not needed
- Trials and civil strife:
(i) The appearance of troubles in the east
(ii) The killing of Uthmaan (ra)
(iii) The battle of al-Jamaal
(iv) The battle of Siffeen
(v) The appearance of the Khawaarij
(vi) The happening of al-Harrah
(vii) The appearance of the saying that the Quran is created
(viii) The following of the ways of the previous nations- The appearance of claimants to Prophethood
- Widespread safety
- The appearance of fire in the Hijaz
- Fighting the Turks
- Fighting the non-Arabs
- Dissappearance of trustworthiness
- Dissappearance of knowledge and appearance of ignorance
- Increase in the number of police and helpers of the oppressors
- Spread of fornication
- Spread of usury
- Spread of musical instruments and their being thought to be allowed
- Drinking of intoxicants and its being allowed
- Adorning the mosques and rivalling therein
- Building tall buildings
- The slave girls giving birth to her mistress
- Increase in killing
- Time passing quickly
- Coming together of markets
- Appearance of Shirk in this Ummah
- Appearance of wickedness, cutting off of relations and ill treatment of neighbours
- Dying of grey hairs with black dye
- Increase of extreme miserliness
- Increase in trade
- Many earthquakes
- Appearance of sinking into the earth, transformation into animals and false-accusations
- The passing away of the pious
- The raising of the despicable people to positions of importance
- That greeting is given only to those the person knows
- That knowledge is sought from other than the scholars in truth
- Appearance of women in clothes which do not cover them
- The truthfulness of the dreams of the Believers
- Spread and increase in writing
- Laxity with regard to the Sunnah
- Increase in size of the new moons
- Increase in falsehood and having no concern to check reports
- Increase in false testimony and witholding true witness
- Large number of women and small number of men
- Sudden death being common
- Hatred amongst peoples hearts
- The return of the land of the Arabs to being pastures and rivers
- Increase in rain but decrease in produce
- The revealing of a mountain of gold by the Euphrates river
- The talking of wild animals and inanimate objects to people
- Wishing for death because of the severity of trials
- Increase in the number of ‘Romans’ and their fighting the muslims
- Victory over Constantinople
- The appearance of al-Qahtaanee
- Fighting the Jews
- The expelling by al-Madeenah of its wicked people, then its desolation at the end of time
- The sending of a pleasant wind to take away the souls of the Believers
- The attacking of the Sacred House and dismantling of the Ka’bah
B. The Major Signs
- The Mahdee
- The Anti-Christ [Maseeh ud-Dajjal]
- The descent of Eesaa (as)
- Yajooj and Maajooj
- The three great sinkings of the earth
- The appearance of smoke in the sky
- The rising of the sun in the west
- The beast of the earth [Daabbat ul-Ard]
- The fire which brings the people together